We take Abraham’s faith for granted. He has been described as the Lonely Man of Faith. Jewish tradition sees him as the paradigm for loving God. Although it disturbs us, the story of the Binding of Isaac is seen as a story of Abraham’s selflessness, his willingness to go all the way in serving God.
But is it helpful for us to hold up such a “perfect” model of faith. I’m not sure there are many people who can see themselves as truly following Abraham’s example.
On the other hand, maybe Abraham wasn’t the perfect man of faith that he is often presented as. Perhaps Abraham had his moments of doubts as well.
This morning’s Torah portion, Lekh L’kha, opens with Abram (his name has not yet been changed to Abraham) as a seventy five year old man. God promises him that he will be a great nation, and will inherit the Promised Land. Abram obeys, and soon arrives in the unnamed land to which God leads him. Things are going well at first, but then discord breaks out in the household. Abram’s only living relative, his nephew Lot, is also a successful shepherd. Their respective herdsman cannot seem to cooperate when it comes to pasturing the flocks, and so the two branches of the family are forced to split apart. Abram is magnanimous about it, offering his nephew the first choice about where to settle, but the end result is that Abram is separated from his only family member in a foreign land. He must be lonely.
Soon afterwards. Abram finds himself in a famine. So he uproots his household and heads down to Egypt, where food is available. There, he feels compelled to lie about Sarai his wife, passing her off as his sister rather than his wife. Apparently, he feels that it would be better for Pharaoh to bring her into the palace under the assumption that she is available rather than risk being killed as competition.
These are not the actions of a secure individual.
Nevertheless, the subterfuge works, and Abram prospers greatly in Egypt. We do not know about Sarai’s experience in the palace, however. When God strikes the Egyptians with a plague, the Abram’s deception is revealed. Needless to say, Pharaoh is not impressed, and Abram is expelled from Egypt. Back to Canaan he goes.
Meanwhile, war breaks out between several cities in the Jordan valley and an alliance of foreign kings. In the fighting, Lot is taken captive by the invading armies. Abram marshalls his household and rides off to the rescue. After restoring his nephew to safety, Abram once again returns to Canaan.
At this point, how might we imagine that Abram is feeling about his life? He has left everything – his homeland, his culture, his family, his father and brothers, to follow a voice that leads him to the West with unspecified promises of land and progeny. By now, Abram has put forth great effort. While he may be wealthy, he is still a nomad, and he is still childless. While Abram has been totally silent until now, I would think that he must be feeling his mortality. “What have I done with my life?” he must be thinking. “What is my legacy? What do I leave behind me in the world.”
Then, seemingly out of nowhere, God appears to Abram for the second time in a vision. “Fear not, Abram, I am a shield to you; Your reward shall be very great.” (Genesis 15:1)
It seems to rub salt in the wound. All of Abram’s doubts and fears bubble to the surface, and he finally expresses the frustration and disappointment that has been growing in his heart.
“O Lord God, what can You give me, seeing that I shall die childless, and the one in charge of my household is Dammesek Eliezer!” He then continues, “Since You have granted me no offspring, my steward will be my heir.” (Genesis 15:2-3)
In the ancient world, if a couple was childless, their estate could be inherited by a loyal servant. (Nahum Sarna, JPS Torah Commentary, Genesis, p. 113) This is the only time in the Tanakh that Abram’s head servant is mentioned by his name, Eliezer. It suggests that Abram’s statement is not rhetorical. He truly is resigned to the fact that he and Sarai will not be having any children. What then is to become of God’s promise that he will be a great nation?
God responds by reassuring Abram. “That one shall not be your heir,” God responds, “but your very own issue shall be your heir.” (Genesis 15:4) Then God brings Abram outside and instructs him to look up. “Look toward heaven and count the stars, if you are able to count them… so shall your offspring be.” (Genesis 15:5)
Would that reassure you?
It did reassure Abram. “And because he put his trust in the Lord, He (God) reckoned it to his (Abram’s) merit.” וְהֶאֱמִן בַּה’ וַיַּחְשְׁבֶהָ לּוֹ צְדָקָה (Genesis 15:6)
Rabbi Jacob Mann Rakovski, who passed away in 2012 and served for more than 50 years as the Rabbi at Hadassah Medical Organization in Jerusalem, comments on the final word of this phrase, tzedakah. (Iturei Torah, vol. 1, p. 105) What does the Torah mean when it describes Abram continuing trust, or faith, emunah, in God to be tzedakah?
Rakovski says that by having faith at such a seemingly hopeless moment, Abram offers a tremendous gift to the world. That gift is the ability to live a life with purpose and meaning, which is only possible through faith.
When a person lives without faith, Rakovski says, that person’s life has no meaning. When such a person experience difficulties, he or she is inclined to ask, “what good is my life? Why bother?”
Abram saved the world by demonstrating that there is, indeed, something for which to live, and thus, life is immeasurably precious. That is why the Torah uses the word tzedakah to describe what Abram did. His gift is a kind of tzedakah.
Abram may be unique in his ability to maintain faith in God’s promise that he will have children when he has not managed to do for the first 80-plus years of his life. But the lesson to us is important.
Think about a time when you were disappointed. When the things you hoped for did not come to be. Perhaps it was a college program you were hoping to get into, a dream job that you could not get, a romance that did not develop the way you were hoping, not being able to have the family that you imagined.
To be human is to face disappointment. Our challenge is to keep going when things do not turn out as we are hoping. And that is where faith comes in. I found it interesting that Rakovski does not actually specify faith in God, although I imagine that he probably implied it.
But I’ll suggest that when we have faith in something, whatever that something is, we are far better suited to deal with life’s challenges when they come our way, and we experience life’s blessings as far more momentous and meaningful when they happen.
In 2004, the This I Believe project was founded. It was actually the resurrection of a radio program hosted by Edward R. Murrow in the 1950’s in which famous, and not-so-famous people were asked to speak about the guiding principles by which they lived.
At this point, more than 125,000 people have submitted essays about the values that guide their daily lives and give them a sense of meaning.
For several years, This I Believe essays would be read on NPR, and I had a chance to hear some of them during my commutes to Rabbinical School. There was one essay in particular that stuck with me. I would like to share it. It is by Harold Taw, an attorney from Seattle and the son of Burmese immigrants. He comes from a totally different tradition than that of the monotheistic religions, and yet the thing in which he believes, gives his life meaning and purpose.
I could say that I believe in America because it rewarded my family’s hard work to overcome poverty. I could say that I believe in holding on to rituals and traditions, because they helped us flourish in a new country. But these concepts are more concretely expressed this way: I believe in feeding monkeys on my birthday, something I’ve done without fail for 35 years.
When I was born, a blind Buddhist monk living alone in the Burmese jungle predicted that my birth would bring great prosperity to the family. To ensure this prosperity, I was to feed monkeys on my birthday. While this sounds superstitious, the practice makes karmic sense. On a day normally given over to narcissism, I must consider my family and give nourishment to another living creature.
The monk never meant for the ritual to be a burden. In the Burmese jungle, monkeys are as common as pigeons. He probably had to shoo them away from his sticky rice and mangoes. It was only in America that feeding monkeys meant violating the rules. As a kid, I thought that was cool. I learned English through watching bad television shows, and I felt like Caine from “Kung Fu,” except I was a chosen warrior sent to defend my family. Dad and I would go to the zoo early in the morning, just the two of us. When the coast was clear, I would throw my contraband peanuts to the monkeys.
I never had to explain myself until my 18th birthday. It was the first year I didn’t go with my father. I went with my friends and arrived 10 minutes after the zoo gates closed. `Please,’ I beseeched the zookeeper, `I feed monkeys for my family, not for me. Can’t you make an exception?’ `Go find a pet store,’ she said. If only it were so easy. That time I got lucky. I found out that a high school classmate trained the monkeys for the movie “Out of Africa,” so he allowed me to feed his monkey.
I’ve had other close calls. Once a man with a pet monkey suspected that my story was a ploy and that I was an animal rights activist out to liberate his monkey. Another time a zoo told me that outsiders could not feed their monkeys without violating the zookeepers’ collective bargaining agreement. In a pet store once, I managed to feed a marmoset being kept in a bird cage. Another time I was asked to wear a biohazard suit to feed a laboratory monkey.
It’s rarely easy, and yet somehow I’ve found a way to feed a monkey every year since I was born. Our family has prospered in America. I believe that I’ve ensured this prosperity by observing our family ritual and feeding monkeys on my birthday. Do I believe that literally? Maybe. But I have faith in our family, and I believe in honoring that faith in any way I can.
What do you believe in? Maybe it’s feeding monkeys. Or maybe it has something to do with serving humanity, or supporting the Jewish community, or following Jewish law and tradition, or raising a family. When we can articulate the values and beliefs that inspire us to live lives of immeasurable meaning. What gives your life meaning? What gives you strength when things are not going well? What inspires you to get out of bed each morning and face a new day?